Friday, June 22, 2018

On the Road

I'm a planner. I think it comes naturally with being a mom, and those skills are honed when you become a special needs mom. A few weeks before the summer started, I carefully crafted a calendar to keep our days busy and packed so that we all wouldn't go crazy.

Well, my summer plans didn't start out exactly as we wanted.

Unfortunately my father passed away the first week of June, so it meant a family trip to Michigan. My father and I had a complicated relationship, but it was important to be there for my mom and the rest of my family.

It wasn't even our original plan for all of us to go to the funeral, but my husband gauged my mood and decided the entire family needed to go. So with a four prep time, I packed and loaded everyone in the car for an epic road trip across country.

It took us only a few days to get there, because we pushed hard. The kids were troopers. What did we do without Kindles and car DVD players in the past?

All in all, we were away from home for 11 days - three to get there, three in Michigan, and five days home. We took our time and spent the night close to friends on the way home to make it easier on the kids. And because we had been planning on going on a long camping vacation that week anyway. So that turned out conveniently for my husband work-wise.

Although we were in Michigan for sad reasons, it was nice to see the family and my friends. I even got to stop into my brother's new comic book shop. Rad Raptor Comics is in Adrian, Michigan, and you should check it out. I'm so proud of him.

I will probably blog later about some of our experiences on the road, however I just wanted to point out that no matter what we plan, God is always going to throw curve balls.

And while this would not have been my choice for summer activities, I think our family grew together and bonded more living 11 days in hotels and on the road across the country.

Friday, June 1, 2018

Phoenix ComicFest recap

We had a great time as a family last weekend - and even some fun time as a couple! This year was a big year because our son's behavior coach was able to get a pass to go to one of the day's with him! If you have a kiddo with special needs and an aide, write to the convention to see if they make accommodations. They were great for us!

Here's a rundown of the weekend:


Thursday 


This usually is our favorite day at the con because there are less people and you can take your time to look at all the vendors and enjoy things. My 6yo saved her birthday money this year and was able to purchase a couple of stuffed animals and an awesome giraffe hat.

The only downside of Thursday this year was that the Hall of Heroes, AKA the upstairs vendor hall, was not open on that day this year. So we couldn't check out any of the costume groups on this day. Also there are a lot of non-profits that usually have booths up there, like the Arizona Natural History Museum. Last year because it was a slow day, my son peppered them with SO MANY questions. It was great. But the slowness is probably why they didn't open it.Still, I feel bad for the vendors who had booths up there who lost a day's worth of potential sales. I hope they got a discount. The kids of course spent time in the Lego and art rooms. I love that the convention has these, as it is a great place to go to get a break from the crowds.

Friday

Long but fun day! The check in lines moved quickly, despite the extra security. Our kids opted to wear their costume-looking onsie pajamas as cosplay. We started out with lightsaber training from the Jedi Academy, which was super cute. And then we hit the Lego and art rooms again. 

Next we went up to the Hall of Heroes. The kids checked out the amazing super hero, Star Wars, Doctor Who displays and costumes. Boo found the Museum of Natural History booth and spent his time eyeing the fossils. 

There was also a large amount of video games to check out, which my 9yo appreciated. We especially loved the arcade area. He could have played there for hours, if we're being honest. Sometimes having younger siblings who want to look at other things can be annoying. 

We finished up the day with more shopping in the exhibitor hall, and of course some ice cream. 

Saturday and Sunday

Yay date day! We found some gracious friends who were able to take our kids for Saturday and Sunday (two of them were even on sleepovers, so it was a nice fun time for them too), so we got two days alone at the convention. 

We ate at non-kid-friendly restaurants, including the Cornish Pasty. I had their pasty called The Pilgrim, which is basically like a Thanksgiving dinner baked into the crust. 

We went to a few panels - a couple of the celebrity ones and a couple of just fellow geeks talking about geeky stuff. Our favorite was the Michael Rooker panel. He jumped out in the audience and ran around with the mic, letting people ask questions. My husband got to talk to him, but it happened so quickly I couldn't video it or get a picture. Dang it! 

And of course, spent money. I bought a lovely Tarth banner to hang in my room. And the rest of the time, we just walked around and enjoyed each other's company in a cool environment. 

Overall, it was a fun convention. We talked about maybe only doing two days next year instead of four, but we always change our minds when it gets closer. :)